humanity

I am ashamed to admit that I am frequently surprised at the number of kind and amicable people in the world. I'm still not quite sure why I think friendly people are so rare. Maybe it is more related to my lack of noticing them rather than their lack of existance. Perhaps my charitable mood during my travels caused people to open up to me and allowed me to notice and appreciate their goodness.


In any case, I encountered many caring people while I was away. Not just my wonderful American travel companions or the Peruvians we served, but strangers on my flights and the employees of the hotel where we stayed. On my eight hour flight from L.A. to Lima I sat next to an Indian (from India) student of the air force academy on his way with a buddy to Peru for Spring Break. He was polite, friendly and gracious. He humored me by looking at pictures of my boys and flattered me by saying how adorable they are. There was also a motherly woman
next to me on my flight from Lima to Cusco who oogled over pictures of Cameron and Eli and chatted me through some wild turbulence.

I love it when the world feels small. I love it when all it takes to make a connection with someone is having one thing in common. What I already knew was the obvious, that we all have one thing in common. Our humanity. What I learned is that it really does unite us.


One evening Kim and I were wandering the streets of Cusco and came across these dancers. We watched them for awhile and after they finished I asked if I could take their photo. One young man grabbed my camera and pushed us into the picture where the others adorned our heads with their festive hats.


A couple in the market that I made some purchases from. He actually didn't like this picture, and requested that I try again but the second one didn't turn out.
Pepe and Ernesto are employees of Ascend that work with the American groups that come to do humanitarian work. They were so humble and Ernesto worked so hard to make us laugh.


This is Sabino. I bought this painting from him and then in his best English and my best Spanish we talked for 20 minutes. I showed him pictures of my family (what a proud mother I am!) and he told me about his love for art and "motos" and his bad motorcycle accident. I wanted to hug him when we said good-bye.

Teaching the kids the hokey pokey...

They told us to bring things that we could use to interact with kids. I brought this magnadoodle and asked the kids to "escribe tu nombre". They loved it.

service

I spent the first day in the village with the medical team. We set up a clinic that included a triage where we took vitals and a chief complaint, three exam rooms, and a small pharmacy. My role this day consisted mostly of painting the fingernails of the little girls and teaching basic toothbrushing skills.

The next two days I spent with the dental team. These days were much more intense and difficult. With the help of a translator I did exams and then gave the injections to numb their mouth for the dentists. We did only fillings and extractions. It was emotionally and physically hard. The Peruvians were stoic but at any given moment there were children screaming and crying. The line went on and on and we had to eventually turn people away.

This girl was especially nervous, but her mother said her tooth had been hurting for over a year. I had to coax her through the entire procedure and by the end I felt like we had accomplished something major together.

All my life I have been taught that by serving others you learn to love them. Now I can testify that to be an undeniable truth. I do not speak Spanish well, and many of our patients only spoke Ketchua. But the look of gratitude in their eyes endeared them to me forever.
I don't know if I will ever have another opportunity to provide service in another country to people so different from myself. But I believe the principle applies everywhere. My dad always taught me, True happiness comes not from the way others treat us, but from the way we treat others. And when I got there, in that moment when I was thinking entirely about the well-being of these people, one at a time, it felt wonderful.

friendship

In a way this trip reminded me of summer camp. (Or EFY for the Mormon youth.) Combine 14 strangers and have them spend long days, late nights, and early mornings together. It's extreme bonding time. You feel like you have known eachother for years and, in our case, because of extensive bus rides, plane flights, and l.o.n.g. dinners we got to know eachother at hyperspeed compared to co-workers or other friends.
The difference between this trip and summer camp though, is that the bonding was on a higher level. These people are experienced in life, and topics of discussion were more mature and meaningful. I developed a closeness and love for these people that, well, I just did.
They are amazing people. But what I learned is that most people are amazing and this discovery can be made by spending quality time and going through emotional experiences with them. That is not to say that we didn't expose our weaknesses. Considering the illness, fatigue and stress we went through it was inevitable that we see the less than wonderful aspects of our individual pesonalities. But like with family members, these faults were easily forgiven.
I wish I could tell you about them all, one by one. But even if I did, it wouldn't mean to you what it has to me. Which is fine. My life has been enriched by their friendship. And it was yet another lesson to me that friendship can be found in the most unlikely places.

work

Peru is famous for the ancient Incan ruins. Rightly so. No matter how many sites we visted I never ceased to be amazed at the extreme effort that was required to construct the walls and terraces. The tools were primitive but the manpower was not lacking.

Saqsaywaman is known for the sheer enormity of the rocks. Without a doubt they were huge.

Pisaq had endless terraces used for farming. We were told that they reconstructed the terraces each year to rotate the soil.

Machu Picchu deserves it's own post. But anyone who has ever witnessed something breathtaking knows that pictures will never do it justice. Just imagine, an entire city in the middle of the jungle, built on top of a mountain 500 years ago. The most physically challenging part of our trip was climbing to the top of mount Waynu Picchu, which overlooks Machu Picchu. The way up the mountain is a rugged and steep Incan staircase, and by stairs I mean rocks. They have installed rope for help on the way up and down.

The view of Machu Picchu from atop Waynu Picchu.
This is me, feeling thrilled at top of this mountain.

The Inca people may have spent their lives in hard labor, but not much has changed for the current Peruvian people. If you click on this picture you can see how high up the side of the mountain the farms are. To get a general idea of the magnitude of the mountains just use the buildings in the valley as a scale. No small task for the people to climb the mountain each day to work on the farms.


Everywhere they go these women carry the alpaca wool and spin it into the thread they use for clothing. In society as we know it here in the United States and in westernized civilization we take the path of least resistance in most of what we do. Successful ideas and products are designed to make our lives easier. Our bread is sliced, "hand-wash only" articles of clothing are taken to the dry-cleaner, our pizza is delivered and even our pharmacy has a drive-through.

Here is my point: I am grateful that I don't have to break a sweat each day just to survive. The freedom of modern convenience gives me opportunities to spend time playing with my children, preparing a good meal, or reaching out to others. Laziness is not an option for the villagers of Peru and I pray that laziness will never be the reason I don't take advantage of the opportunity of time available to me.

about Peru...

I thought about writing a daily play-by-play photo/narrative about where I went, what I saw and I what I did. But what I really want to write about isn't just facts and locations but also what it all meant for me. So I want to write by topic, so to speak, about the lessons I learned and the experiences that inspired me. With a lot of pictures included of course.



(This is the city of Cusco, 11,000 feet elevation, population 300,000. We slept and ate here and suffered headaches and various other ailments resulting from altitude sickness.)

home

I am home! My heart is full from my experiences and I look forward using my blog as a medium for processing everything from the past ten days. Going to Peru was a wonderful experience, but what has most affected me was spending ten days with 14 really great people. I look forward to writing about both.

a temporary absence

Although my departure isn't for another five days I can already feel the stress of the coming week setting in. It is knocking at the door the same way a sore throat indicates a cold is coming on. So although I might rather blog than tackle some of the tasks that await me; it is best that I focus my energies on making sure my home and children will survive 10 days without me. (Of course they will, but if I admit that what will happen to my self-worth?)

Thank you everyone for your contributions. I am excited but also a little anxious about my upcoming adventure. I can only imagine the blog posts that will be born of this experience and I am determined NOT to come home and post a thousand pictures that will not do justice to my thoughts. But post I will, because I have been advised that sharing my ponderings is an important part of this expedition.

Cheerio!

coins have been counted

Due to poor timing on my part Richard had to take my dear pickle jar to the credit union without me. I missed that exciting moment. But upon hearing the total my sadness was quickly dispelled. It should be more than enough to cover the Peruvian handbag.

$102.81 - Take that Bryan, guesser of $23.07!
(I thought about taking a picture of the receipt for proof but it was full of account information that I'm not about to post online.)

So if my calculations are correct that makes Angela (Michaelangelo) first place with her guess of $125.97.

And Liberty in second place with her guess of $77.77.

Thanks everyone for playing, I really enjoyed this. I'll be in touch with the winners.